As public understanding of mental illness grows, it is increasingly
old news to point out that telling depression sufferers simply to "cheer
up" is not an effective treatment. Most ordinary people believe that mental illness is all emotional or conscious behavior. It is more than that simple notion.
Beyond the basic understanding that
depressive symptoms correspond to a chemical imbalance in the
neurotransmitters serotonin, dopamine, and norepinephrine, modern
science still has yet to provide a reliable solution to the multitude of
undesirable psychological conditions grouped under the heading of
“depression.”
At best, pharmaceutical aids and psychological counseling
can significantly alleviate depression’s effects, but the most effective
treatment varies from one individual to another and is generally
unpredictable (as well as time-consuming and sometimes costly). A recent study from the University of Warwick, however, suggests a more natural treatment for depression: time spent with friends.
Evidence to support this bit of advice, which isn’t as trite as it initially sounds, can be found in the Proceedings of the Royal Society B, where researchers published their peer-reviewed results.
Head researcher Edward M. Hill, a PhD student specializing in public
health and infectious disease epidemiology, analyzed data from the
1994-1995 National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent to Adult Health,
which surveyed respondents enrolled in grades 7-12 (roughly
corresponding to ages 13-18). During in-home interviews, the respondents
listed up to ten friends, five male and five female, and indicated the
presence or absence of symptoms associated with depression.
When Hill
and his co-authors modeled the data 10 years later, they found that
“adolescents with five or more healthy (that is, non-depressed) friends
have half the probability of becoming depressed over a six-to-12-month
period compared to adolescents with no healthy friends.”
For the young
respondents unlucky enough to already be exhibiting depressive symptoms,
“adolescents with 10 healthy friends have double the probability of
recovering from depressive symptoms over a six-to-12-month period
compared to adolescents with three healthy friends.”
In other words,
healthy, happy friends were a strong influence in making a healthy,
happy individual.
Fortunately, the emotional cause-and-effect seemed to be a one-way
street: depressed individuals exerted no negative influence on their
healthy friends. However, there is an evident paradox here, in which the
individuals most likely to benefit from the cheering impact of time
spent with healthy companions are also the most likely to
self-segregate, thereby denying themselves an opportunity for exposure
to those with more positive outlooks.
The message, then, is not only
that the depressed should seek happiness in the glow of others, but also
that healthy friends should do their part to uplift their struggling
loved ones, even if doing so simply entails spending more time with
them.
In LOST, one the better themes and life lessons was the power of friendship. Most of the main characters had no true friends. There were workaholics, loners, depressed individuals with no drive, dreams or ambition. We pass these type of people on the street every day. They just blend into the background.
What friendship was in the series was various unrelated characters coming together in order to survive. In real life, true friends mean daily survival from the depressing daily routine so many people fall into these days. True friends cherish and respect their friends. Their happiness is tied to other's happiness. In a world that is now less personal (through technology that eliminates the need for one on one personal contact or interaction), friendships grow stronger when both parties open and honestly communicate with each other. As a result, this support allows both parties to thrive and overcome the demons that plague everyone at some time during their lives.